Personal Blog of Forest Marie

The Day of Realization

Do you ever kick yourself in he ass?

Beat yourself up?

Don’t give yourself enough credit?

They say we’re our own toughest critics.

I believe it.

I’m hard on myself – very hard, actually… Like, I’m never satisfied hard…

It can be good, it can be bad.

But tonight, I’ll sleep well.

Why?

Because today I sent out a few E-Mail promoting Traffic Formula 2.0 and made over $800 so far today…

Some have made more. Some less. Some nothing (hang in there though).

But at the end of day, I made $800 for about 30 minutes of work in an industry pursued by millions looking to finally understand this game…

That’s not too shabby for a shy tech geek who has only been marketing online for about 15 months …

Even better – I have this “system” so refined that I can teach almost anyone to do this if they’ll just go through the obstacle course…

In fact, in many ways, it’s almost like getting into the NFL or something very difficult to achieve in life.

Today, I’ve realized I’m proud of myself – and it’s “odd” for someone with my personality type to say that.

I have to stop kicking myself in the ass so much …

And so I say to you if you’re having results, keep going, never quit and give yourself a pat on the back because you’re a masterpiece in progress.

If you’re competitive and very stubborn, well so am I, so use those elements to your advantage, but give yourself credit when hit a milestone.

Odd post – I know…

Just thought I’d share.

Sound Off

What about you? Do you kick yourself in the ass and beat yourself up?

Let me know …

Now I’m going to bed. See you tomorrow.

Forest Marie, Personal Growth Personal Growth

Imagine what would it would feel like to be able to fire your boss, make a fortune from home, spend more time with your family, have millions invested in real estate allowing your money to work for you and retire in style living a life of luxury while leaving behind a kick-butt legacy for many generations to come.

How would that feel? If it feels like utopia, I have some GOOD news and BAD news for you…

Because I like to solve people’s problems, I always like to get the BAD news first, so here it is …

Bad News … Oh No!

The BAD news is that it’s NOT easy as it sounds to setup and build a successful online business with a strong residual income, especially if you have a poor work ethic and a job mentality mindset..

Here’s a few things you must get good at to achieve that utopia you recently painted in your mind from home with a home business:

• How do you master lead generation?
• Do you use offline or online advertising or both?
• How do you “effectively” follow-up with your prospects?
• How do you know if there’s actually a market for your product?
• How large should your marketing budget be if you want to make $50,000/monthly or more?
• How do you make ads FTC compliant so that you stay of out hot water with the government?
• How do you leverage your time with a personal assistant? Where do you find one?
• What should you do with the money you make so you don’t blow it all like most people do?
• How do you train your team so that they can duplicate your success?
• How do you leverage your time and resources so you’re not working 70 hours a week? (this is huge)

Good News … Yeah!

There’s a lot to it, but the good news is that you’ve found this blog and I can help you … if you can help yourself.

If you’ve ever pursued a home business before, then this information is going to feel like a completely honest, open, and revealing breath of fresh-air compared to some of the garbage you’ve probably heard in the past.

I can show you how to build a pipeline of prospects, and then how to market to them “correctly” using automated tools … it’s the only way to go in my opinion.

The Internet is Full of Garbage …

Too many times, too many people get sucked into hype and sold on empty promises like, “The system does all of the work for you.”

Well guess what … That kind of talk and positioning does nothing but attract lazy losers who don’t want to do anything, unappreciative customers, and the attention of the good-ol’ boys at the FTC.

Sounds like a winning strategy, doesn’t it?

Well before we go any further into that topic, let’s step back and take a quick look at your options…

95% of all home businesses are usually found in the MLM or direct sales industry.

While they have many similarities, the primary difference is the compensation model. I prefer the direct sales model because it’s MUCH easier to replace a full-time or six-figure income compared to any other type of home business. Period. With that said, here’s two secrets of earning a real income from home …

Two Quick Secrets

Secret #1: Choose DIRECT SALES over multi-level marketing (MLM)

If you want to generate a large income quickly and attract higher quality people. If you want to attract the business owners, professional salespeople and white collar professionals like I do, you need to have a business that pay high ticket money.

Let’s be frank: Business owners, professional salespeople and white collar professionals have, during their life, proved they can finish what they start and they are producers and go-getters. We don’t want to bust our ass for $20, $30, $50 and $100 checks … period. If that doesn’t resonate with you, build a bridge and get over it.

Secret #2: Understand how you will really make your money and build your mini-empire.

You see, a business opportunity is really nothing – not an opportunity at all. In fact, it’s just an agreement on a piece of paper.

Joining for the Wrong Reasons

The vast majority of people who end up starting a home business do so because they get all hyped-up, usually on a conference call, about some “super” new product that they think will overtake the market and make them millions in the process.

Well .. unfortunately … that’s not how it works. But boy did that conference call sound good and that presenter was massively articulate.

The only way you’re ever going to make REAL money … I’m talking $500,000, to multiples of that, is to do one single thing…

And if you’ll sit back and really absorb the meaning of what I’m about to share with you, money will NEVER be an issue for you again. Ever. I guarantee it 100%.

So here’s the most valuable piece of advice you’ll ever get from me:

Increase your personal value to the world.

IS THAT IT?

Yes that’s it: “Increase your personal value to the world.”

Did you ever consider that the amount of money you make is a direct measure of your worth to society? It’s why a software engineer makes more than a cashier. They’re simply more valuable.

And if you want to increase your income, you MUST increase your value to others. Once you do that, money starts coming at you like wouldn’t believe. Business becomes a piece of cake.

Social Dynamics

It all comes down to “social dynamics.”

You see, people like to work with, learn from, and buy from proven leaders who can offer them REAL value. People want to invest in a business from someone they perceive as a consultant, not just another peddler preaching hype.

It’s a genetic instinct because associating ourselves with people of means and power increases our chances for survival and prosperity. If you don’t believe me, take a look at how much money you make and then take a look at how much the five people you spend the most time with make. Then find someone making 50K+ a month and check out how much the five people he spends the most time with makes.

This is nothing new — this behavior dates back to the cavemen days.

In essence, when you increase your value to others, you never have to “sell” anything. People approach you. Your become a prosperity magnet, an agent of change, a leader and achieving the kind of financial prosperity you want becomes so easy, it’s a “non-issue”.

On the other hand, if you don’t have any real value to offer someone, they’ll take their business elsewhere to a court they see has value, especially if it’s a great prospect and an attractive person.

As Jim Rohn says,

To attract attractive people, you must become attractive.

So the most important thing you could ever do, no matter what your occupation, is to increase your value to others by increasing your knowledge, experience, and skill sets.

And that’s when marketing becomes FUN!

It’s My Advantage

My knowledge of Internet Marketing is why so many entrepreneurs choose to work with me. As one of the top income earners in the industry with the ability to write and engineer custom Web Sites and software, I obviously have a lot of value to offer sharp, ambitious people like yourself …

… especially in the arena of Internet Marketing and using online systems that market and generate leads and sales non-stop. I love the Internet and know how to to de-mystify the “techie” stuff.

Now go learn all you can about Internet Marketing, leadership, prospecting, etc. There’s a ton of resources out there. And make sure you align yourself with winners!

General Network Marketing, Leadership, Personal Growth, Success advice, lead generation, leadership, marketing advice

If you are involved in network marketing, no doubt you are aware of how it can be very important to build up a downline. However, many people get the idea that their success hinges upon their upline or their downline. While your upline and downline can affect the money that you make and mitigate your learning curve, it’s important that you realize you are not responsible for their actions, and likewise they are not responsible for yours. Once you get a grasp on this key concept, you’ll be better prepared to become successful in this type of marketing today.

NEVER Blame Your Upline For Your Failure

The first thing you need to remember is that you should never blame your upline for your own failure. Even if your upline isn’t doing well, this is no excuse for you. You are responsible for the actions that you take. Don’t try putting the blame off on your upline if you don’t succeed.

If you are not succeeding and making a profit, then more than likely it’s because you are doing something wrong. You need to find out what it is and stop doing what isn’t promoting you. Your success does not hinge merely on the success of your upline. So, start accepting the blame yourself instead of trying to pass it all off on someone else. Accountability is a very admirable quality – learn it.

You’re Not Responsible When Your Downline Fails

At some point you are going to become an upline leader yourself. When you become a leader, you’ll have a team below you. Often your team can help you to make even more money in network marketing as it’s all about leverage.

It’s your job to help train your downline and to give them the instructions they need in order to be successful. However, this doesn’t mean that you are responsible if certain members of your downline fail. Drill this into your head: The failure of people in your downline is not something that you are personally responsible for. Each person in your downline is responsible for themselves and whether or not they are successful. So, don’t feel guilty if something happens and someone in your downline doesn’t make it or they totally fail. This is not your fault.

Remember You’re NOT A Baby Sitter

When you have people in your downline, it’s so important that you remember that you’re not a baby sitter. Sure, you are there to provide help along the way, but you shouldn’t have to baby sit those in your downline. Give them the information they’ll need and then let them go. They will be responsible for how they use the information and how they perform in network marketing. You should have not to spend the time repeatedly looking over their shoulder to make sure they are performing. Let them go, don’t baby sit them, but be ready to offer some help if they ask for it.

The Guilt Factor – Quitting Because You Feel Responsible

Unfortunately, one of the main reason that good people quit network marketing is because they feel responsible for their downline and feel the need to baby sit them. And if the a team member doesn’t perform, many people take it personally and, on a subconcious level, struggle to make more sales and grow their sales team.

Over time this becomes a burden and can be very frustrating as well, which is so many people end up in the network marketing cemetery. It’s important that you don’t let these feelings control your ability to be successful in network marketing yourself. You don’t need to feel responsible for what your upline or downline does. Instead of quitting, refocus on what really matters – being a success yourself.

It All Starts And Stops With YOU!

Remember, when it comes to network marketing, it all starts and stops with you. If you are successful, that’s because of you. If you fail, then it’s probably your fault. You aren’t responsible for others and they aren’t responsible for you either. You are the one that will make or break this business. Once you begin to realize this, you’ll feel a new type of freedom. You’ll feel as if the chains have been broken and you are free to be successful. Don’t let those feelings drag you down, but be responsible for your self and you’ll be able to climb your way to success if you are willing to work hard yourself.

As the saying goes, “the buck starts and stops with you.” So never pass it.

General Network Marketing, Leadership, Personal Growth leadership, Network Marketing, network marketing training

Here’s the bottom line. If you’re broke …

You’re Broke Because You Want To Be

Well, you are.

It’s true.

I say it.

And so does Larry Winget.

Who the heck is Larry Winget?

Well, he’s the host of A&E’s show Big Spender. He’s also known as the pitbull of personal development.

I’m currently reading his book right not titled … ding ding … You’re Broke Because You Want To Be and I highly recommend you check out ASAP.

WARNING: Larry is not soft and he’s going to give it to you straight. So if you need a good kick in the ass, this is your book. And it’s an easy read too because it’s straight to the point, transitions well and leaves out the fluff.

Here’s what Robert Kiyosaki had to say about the book:

“Larry Winget is a great guy—he’s tough, talks straight, and has a big heart. Read this book if you need a good kick in the butt!”

So if you’re broke … it’s because you want to be. Read this book if you disagree with me!

Personal Growth larry winget, Personal Growth, you're broke because you want to be

Are you developing your mindset yet or are you still letting weeds grow in your mind?

Right now we are going to talk about mindset. What it is, what you have to do to master it and what will happen when you do.

Whether you are disciplined in exercising your mind or you think you can sit idly by without developing your mind, you will find great value here.

First, what is mindset exactly? I think most of us have a general description, but let’s get specific.

From the website of Merriam-Webster:

mindset
One entry found.

Main Entry: mind–set
Pronunciation: \’mīn(d)-,set\
Function: noun
Date: 1909

1: a mental attitude or inclination
2: a fixed state of mind

Simple enough, right?

So what is your mental attitude or inclination? What is your fixed state of mind?

Are your thoughts berating your mind with negativity and creating a mindset of lack and scarcity?

Are you concentrating on everything you don’t want all the time i.e. I hate my job, I never have enough money, I can’t stand when so and so does that, etc. Are you constantly living in the past?

Or are you developing your mindset for prosperity by thinking about what you want and the actions you are taking to get there? Are you living in the now?

Are you the later? Than congratulations, you represent 3% of the population! You are wealthy and not just in money, in all facets of your life.

If you are the one with a lack-mentality and therefore a weak mindset, have no fear you can change your mindset with simple disciplines and you can start right NOW!

Is there something in your life you do not like whether you want more money, a great relationship, a better business, whatever you want you can have simply by starting to discipline your mind and of course taking action!

So STOP concentrating on being sick and tired of whatever and start thinking about what you want.

I am going to show you how to develop your mindset with easy methods to convert your mindset from lack to wealth right here, right now!

Here’s 5 Steps to Developing Your Mindset for Wealth

Reminder, true wealth is more than being rich it is being happy and abundant in all areas of your life do these simple steps and you will open your mind and life to endless possibilities.

1. CONTROL YOUR THOUGHTS

If you are not thinking about what you want and the steps to get there, than you are sabotaging your life.

Pay attention to your thoughts, if you notice you are thinking something negative, gossiping, etc. Simply stop and access and if it is not what you want cancel the thought and think about what you want instead.

Don’t know what to think? Get an affirmation. And if stinking thinking tries to get in your way say your affirmation over and over till it goes away.

2. FILTER NOISE

What you allow yourself to hear and see are just as important as what you allow yourself to think. Are you watching a bunch of negative news, listening to depressing songs, or constantly thinking about the prospect who didn’t sign up with you?

All of this affects your conscious or subconscious depending on you. i.e. People that get into a show and start yelling and screaming at the characters thus for emotionalizing and internalizing the feelings are doing double the damage by consciously living that emotion as well as subconscious.

Listen and watch things that lift you up rather than bring you down.

3. FIND THE GOOD

This may be “out there” for some, just try it you might like it!

With every situation no matter how dismal it may appear you can and should choose to find the good.

You might have to dig a bit or get creative however there is something good there.

Allow your mind to open up, play detective if you have to… What is the good in this? How can it benefit me? How can it change me for the better?

Whatever you do find the good in the situation and concentrate on that.

4. LIVE TODAY

Let your past go and stop beating yourself up. Remove the what ifs, I should haves and I could haves.

Live today, live in the now.

Learn from your past but do not allow yourself to keep reliving and emotionalizing the scenario that is unless you like recreating it in your life.

5. BE CONSCIOUSLY AWARE

Notice your thoughts, emotions and how your body feels in every moment.

It may sound like “hard work” at first and it will take time to develop the habit. However, I can bet your life staying as is will be much harder.

What are you thinking about before you fall asleep, when you wake up, when you are eating, when you are watching your favorite show, and so on.

Before you know it you will be consciously aware and eliminating the negativity in your life with ease.

Recommended Reading to Start Developing Your Mindset:

• The Science of Getting Rich
• Think and Grow Rich
• Acres of Diamonds
• As a Man Thinketh
• The Master Mind
• You’re Broke Because You Want To Be

You should also visit the following post I wrote here:

Can Autosuggestion Really Help With Your Subconscious Mind?

Okay it’s your turn… What are you doing now to develop a healthy mindset? And if you never thought about developing your mind until now, what are you going to do to develop your mindset for wealth?

Leadership, Personal Growth, Success mindset, Personal Growth